theambitiouswoman

  • The wrong people in your life will teach you how to do everything all by yourself. The right people will know you can, but will still help you so you don’t have to.

    You do not have to do everything. Just because you can does not mean you should. It is okay to let people help you.

    I can do absolutely everything on my own. I’ve built everything on my own. I had a lot of bad people in my past that forced me into that position.

    It left me hurt. Defensive. Angry and tired.

    If you read my posts you know that this is not conducive to happiness or a positive driver to confidence.

    Change started when I realized that they were the wrong people. And when I decided to take accountability for the role I played in that dynamic. When I forgave myself for those experiences and when I stopped living life on hurt mode from past experiences. When I learned to choose better people, and expect better of people. When I stopped holding on to negative dynamics and knew that it wasn’t good for me so I let them go without guilt or fear of loss. Because I knew I deserved better for myself.

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